By Itunu Azeez Kareem
11 July 2023 | 7:50 am
Popular Nigerian Marriage therapist, Shamseddin Giwa has actually recommended Nigerian couples attempting to transfer abroad to reconsider prior to starting such journeys. He exposed this on a Facebook post, telling his individual story, a story he entitled “The Relocation Story You Don't Get Told” and how it opted for him and his better half throughout …
Popular Nigerian Marriage therapist, Shamseddin Giwa has actually recommended Nigerian couples attempting to transfer abroad to reconsider prior to starting such journeys.
He exposed this on a Facebook post, telling his individual story, a story he entitled “The Relocation Story You Don't Get Told” and how it chose him and his other half throughout the having a hard time procedure, here is what he stated:
“The moving story you do not get informed.
This was us numerous years back as a young couple trying to find a much better life abroad. The dream was excellent, the objectives were great and we had sufficient to begin. We simply didn't have sufficient details on how difficult it would get.
We began life in a single space within a shared flat where we even got informed when we might utilize the cleaning device or switch on the heating system (even in winter season).
The tasks were demeaning and constantly tiring however the bad currency exchange rate of my house currency offered an incorrect sense of deceptiveness that a person was making excellent however the truth was various. Even with both our earnings, it was hard to live averagely. Keep in mind: we were way much better than others here!
A minimum of we were together however severe work rota indicated we hardly got to hang out together, and marital relationship was strained. Now picture lots of had their partners back house and their marital relationships went through even worse.
Constantly at the grace of the office that was constantly altering migration policies, one never ever really felt settled. In the end, we returned back house and silently began over, together.
Years on, whatever we looked for abroad got handed to us back house! Alhamdulillah.
Now picture numerous still stuck, unlawfully living, not able to work for basic rates, not able to even lease a location in their name, not able to open an account, not able to have assurance and constantly concerned of police, not able to grow yet not able to return house!
What's the point? Moving will check you and your marital relationship in various methods. Please make sure prior to you copy anybody and offer all you need to move. If you discover yourself stuck, have an excellent exit strategy even if it implies coming back house to begin over.
Lots of people and marital relationships are breaking due to press unintended. Do not go this path, do your findings well, your house depends on it.
https://www.facebook.com/ShamseddinGiwa/posts/pfbid02omxhjyj4yLWfxGSLGu2wH86D6LpN7yueTJbNxbEXgpNRA5k6fQ7AAfhiz3YUAbACl
Shamseddin Giwa is understood for his therapy and marital relationship talks for couples and meaning couples
